Category Archives: Feel Good Not For Children

This Boy’s Life (1993)

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Moving from one unhealthy relationship to another, Caroline (Ellen Barkin)
and her son, Toby (Leonardo DiCaprio), roam the country and finally end up
in Washington state, where she marries Dwight (Robert De Niro), a modest
mechanic. But Dwight fails to be the role model she had hoped for , and
Toby is desperate to escape from under his heavy, abusive hand. Michael
Caton-Jones’s gripping drama is based on Tobias Wolff’s autobiography of
the same name.

I am not trying purposely to watch DiCaprio films, it just keeps happening. He IS a good actor. But in this film, in my humble opinion, Robert De Niro gives the best performance of his career. He plays an utterly despicable father to perfection. I was on the edge of my seat the entire film waiting for his comeuppance. I called this a “feel good”, but that is true only at the end. You just get more and more fearful for DiCaprio’s future until the end.

Don’t miss it!

The Edge of Heaven (2007)

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When his father (Tuncel Kurtiz) accidentally kills a prostitute
(Nursel Koese), Nejat (Baki Davrak) seeks out the woman’s 27-year-old
daughter, Ayten (Nurgul Yesilcay), to make amends. Nejat focuses his
search in Turkey, but Ayten, part of a closely scrutinized activist
group , has already fled to Germany. Lives intersect in unexpected ways
in writer-director Fatih Akin’s multilayered drama, which won Best
Screenplay at the 2007 Cannes Film Festival.

Because the film’s philosophy is that most people are forgiving and loving, I have classified this film as “Feel-good but not for children”. I am learning from my Spanish (Joaquín) and Italian (Vincenzo) teachers that we Americans are much more prudish than other countries. I was taken aback when two of the women characters fell in love with one another. Joaquín says the gay culture is taken for granted in Mexico City. At any rate, not for children.

When the dialog is not English (i.e. German or Turkish) there are subtitles. The action takes place in Germany (Bremen ?) and Istanbul. I enjoyed getting a view of narrow German streets, and what Istanbul looks like.

As with all these films that intermingle several stories, the coincidences can sometimes seem forced. I agonized over the ending which leaves unresolved a discovery that the characters must make. If this were a Hollywood film, that discovery would be made and the violins would play. I nearly flipped when the final screen credits rolled without the resolution I was dying to see.

The film is slower than a Hollywood romp. But it held my attention.

My Left Foot (1989)

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Daniel Day-Lewis won an Oscar for his portrayal of Irish writer
Christy Brown, who was born with cerebral palsy. Misdiagnosed
as mentally disabled for the first 10 years of his life, Brown
learned to write using his left foot, the only body part he
could control. The story unfolds in flashbacks, with Hugh O’Conor
as the young Christy equaling Day-Lewis’s performance as the adult.

“My Left Foot” is one of those classics that you should see at least once
before you die. Somehow Daniel Day-Lewis never seems to age. To me he looks practically the same in each of his films. Not only his performance but also that of the young Christy and Christy’s mother are phenomenal. I had seen this film years ago. It is ageless and I enjoyed it probably more the second time. Do not miss this movie!

Facing Windows (2003)

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Feeling overwhelmed and stuck in a dull marriage, Giovanna
begins refocusing her attention (or repressing her emotions)
by caring for the Jewish Holocaust survivor her husband brings
home one day. As Giovanna reflects on her life, she turns to
the man who lives across from her and whose window faces hers.
Stars Giovanna Mezzogiorno, Massimo Girotti, Raoul Bova,
Filippo Nigro and Serra Yilmaz. Directed by Verzan Ozpetek.

Once again I have stumbled onto a good film. This time it was a coming attraction on another disc from NetFlix.

“Facing Windows” is a warm Italian film with good acting, surprises, music, and human values. It has some discrete sexual scenes which is why I rated it “Feel-good possible not for children”. But the human values, especially the ending could provoke a great family discussion. I feel really lucky to have discovered this gem.

P.S. I Love You (2007)

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Holly Kennedy (Hilary Swank), a young widow living in New
York, has just lost her beloved husband Gerry (Gerard Butler)
to a brain tumor. Inconsolable, Holly finds that Gerry left
for her a series of letters to help cope with the grief. As
months pass, Holly discovers new messages from Gerry encouraging
her to go on living. And while Holly’s friends fear the letters
will mire her in the past, they, in fact, give her strength
for the future.

Even my date (she of the picky picky movie tastes) loved this movie as she sat silently weeping toward the end. Do not be put off by the argument that starts the film. It actually relates to the rest of the film. The ensemble of Hilary Swank, Gerard Butler, Kathy Bates, and Harry Connick Jr. works well. The plot is very tightly constructed (and calls for some suspension of disbelief). At certain points the film comes perilously close to a B movie (but who doesn’t enjoy a little sentimentality ?) The scenes of Ireland were so beautiful that I really must visit Ireland before I die. The sex scenes were so genuinely loving (and discrete) that I would probably recommend it for teenagers.

The Full Monty (1997)

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This raucous English comedy follows a group of unemployed British
steel-mill workers who, broke and bored, devise a fabulous scheme
to get off the dole: Become male strippers! Soon they’re a sensation
with the ladies, who encourage the men to show the “full monty”
(strip down to the skin). This quirky 1997 sleeper is full of character
and great humor.

I was looking for movies my mother would like. The telephone conversation would be something like: “Well Mom, it’s about unemployed British men who want to strip naked in a show … Mom … Mom … are you still there ?”

Driving Lessons (2006)

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Looking to earn some cash — and to get out from under the
thumb of his domineering mother (Laura Linney) — shy teen
Ben Marshall ( Rupert Grint) goes to work as an assistant to a
tetchy retired actress (Julie Walters). But what begins as a
simple summer job soon turns into a life-changing experience
for young Ben. Nicholas Farrell plays Linney’s henpecked spouse
in this affecting coming-of-age drama from director Jeremy Brock.

I can’t even remember how I stumbled upon this small gem of
a movie. Laura Linney plays to perfection an evil religious hypocrite.
Rupert Grint captures “downbeaten teenager” like no one else.
Even Kathy loved this movie (and that’s saying something).

It’s a definite feel-good with some strong language from gritty
Julie Walters.

Last Orders (2002)

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Charismatic butcher Jack Dodds (Michael Caine) orders his lifelong
friends to make a special journey in the wake of his death by delivering
his ashes to the sea. Joined by Jack’s son (Ray Winstone), Lucky
(Bob Hoskins), Vic (Tom Courtenay) and Lenny (David Hemmings)
travel through the pastoral countryside from pub to pub, revisiting their
memories of life after a terrible war. But Jack’s wife (Helen Mirren)
is on a voyage of her own.

Not quite an A movie, but involving and touching nonetheless. And
what a cast of British actors! Helen Mirren is willing to look any
haggard part. A bunch of imperfect but well-meaning and
interrelated people just trying to carry out someone’s last wishes.

Better than a soap opera.

Blazing Saddles (1974)

Politically incorrect and relentlessly funny, Mel Brooks’s take on Hollywood Westerns follows the tortured trail of freed slave Bart, who’s elected sheriff of the racist town of Rock Ridge. He must foil a land-grabbing governor (Brooks) with help from a washed-up, pot-smoking gunslinger (Gene Wilder).

This might just be the best Mel Brooks satire. It features
a black cowboy teamed up with Gene Wilder. There are Jewish
indians (Mel Brooks himself), and Madeline Kahn as a tired protitute.
Probably not for children.

Ladron Que Roba a Ladron (2007)

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A pair of reformed crooks team up to pull one more heist. Their target? Master con artist Moctezuma Valdez (Saúl Lisazo), a popular television infomercial pitchman who’s gotten rich by swindling countless unsuspecting immigrants. The former thieves attempt to recruit some of their criminal cohorts to help pull off the plan, but when they refuse, the two turn to day laborers to participate in the elaborate robbery scheme

(Thieves robbing thieves). This is a C-film. When I was first learning
Spanish I watched telenovelas (Spanish soap operas) on Spanish TV.
Every different series featured the same set of actors and actresses
but in permutated roles. Here I am years later watching a film from CD
which again features many of those same actors (in more “mature”
roles). It is a Robin-Hood story in which a gang of people cooperate
to steal from a TV snake-oil saleman who deceives poor immigrants.
Bad robber keeps his cash in a vault in his palace. Good robbers
concoct an elaborate scheme (think “Oceans 17”) to tunnel into
his house, etc. But what is different is the Latino philosophy and
moralizing. It’s only C but I got a kick out of it. There are plot
twists, even in this wannabe.